Chop Chop Curry Pork

ok chop chop....not much time to blog this.....here's the quick summary, my second treat for my bdae, then this is my er ge wif mi at pepper lunch for the treat...or rather can say is pepper dinner la.... then all of us go play pool, wif da ge, da sao, and my da ge's sis aka my god sis oso... the details can be found on my da ge's kel blog.... ok mi gtg zzZZZzz le.... still got interview tmr..... nid to slp and wake up to prepare for interview....zoooooom...off

There something i wanna say...but i cant.....

I wanna say something to her but somehw i cant.... juz cant..... can only wait.... wait lor.... but how long can I wait? by tat time will it be too late??? well...there's nothing i could do.... i juz cant say it...grr.....

Unsolvable Question...Can you solve it?

well....a few days mi hav a tok cork session wif my buddy, and nidless to say, its abt guys tok.... so in the middle of all the crap... mi suddenly realised smth.... tat actually gals are very hard to please....errm not as its difficult, but there's juz no logical explanation to everything.... well let mi illustrate this.....

suppose ur gf starts to cough...and u hav juz noticed tat her cough is a bit serious.... shd u (a)go to her and ask her if she's ok and offer to accompany her to see the doc? or (b)relax one corner and wait till her cough gets more serious then u bring her to see the doc???...... well at first look, obviously option (a) is the better choice.... well guess wats the respond tat the gal might giv when u choose option(a)....

guy: dear, u ok? u look a bit pale and has been coughing rather badly.... u wanna see a doc?
gal: "grrr".... y u always so jin zhang over small things....relax its juz a small cough...y worry over a small matter? and u always disturb and force mi to do wat i dun lov to do...and bla bla....( so she will begin to bring up all the past unhappy events and will start to complain.......)....
in the end she insisted tat she will self-medicate and dun nid to see the doc....but u wry abt her health and futhermore wats more impt than health??? then u will feel very heartache to see her coughing but even if u nicely ask her to see the doc...she will still insist on not seeing...and may even push the blame to u, saying u are reacting too much over a small thing..... well see the poor guy gets blamed for being concern.......

well so wat happen if u could rewind time and choose option(b)....nahz this cant happen...hw can rewind time de.... but suppose u could...the end-result is not veri good either...

guy: "saw" the gf coughing and knowing the option(a) result.... he decide to leave her alone first..
gal: "sob" my bf never care for mi de... mi is coughing and he doesnt even care to ask whether i'm ok anot... haiz... think this kind of bf no use de....(and so the poor guy this time round gets a cold shoulder from his gf.....)

well...guess there's simply no ans to this type of scenario.... guess u hav to "di gum" hope u kena the correct scenario and the correct respond....lol

my die die buddies.....

yeah... this is mi and my 2 die die buddies at vivo st some jap grill restaurant..... dunno wats the name of the restaurant le.... it was taken on my birthday.... mi is in the middle.... the one on the left is my da ge and the right 1 is er ge.... so anybody got any female frens can recommend my buddy?...errm sry...the da ge is already booked.... he not available....haha if not later the da sao kill mi.... errm the er ge still available:) any takers?

btw....the previous post was juz an analogy... it doesnt represent exactly the scenario.... cos mi is always LW.... if mi ever is attached, this blog will hav to change the background design le.... so mi lazy to change the design ya...lol:)

omg... wat shd i do......

never imagined my turn will come when i'm condemed by my frens.... yeah cheers...:) its a new record for mi....lol... by i still believe wat i do is correct... there's absolutely nothing wrong abt it... well guess i can try to illustrate this scenario using 5 frens, A, B, C, D and E. Well... suppose you are A(guy), you have 2 female frens, B and C, you are interested in both gals but knowinging u could only choose 1 so u choose B, then u start to show ur concern to B, pay more attention to B and devote out more time to B, but while all these are happening, u realise that ur fren D(guy) in the dark has been secretly interested in B for a long time, juz that this fren D has taken no actions as yet... and you and D are very very close frens, so when fren D noes tat u are wooing B, D gives up and gives u all the blessings.... and u can see tat ur fren D is very sad.... so then u carry on the wooing of B and fren D has no choice but to "giv up", however after some time u and B had a quarel because of fren C, so the tension btwn u and B got rougher and eventually broke up...... and following after some time u are seen together with fren C, (but seen together meaning you are juz seen more often ard fren C, but u have no intention of wooing C), so ur fren D upon knowing this, he still does not blame you for making him lose out on the opportunity of B and for all his sad days.... but fren E which is oso ur another close and oso a close fren of D does not see this.... fren E keeps telling D tat you are a "bastard" saying that u "snatch" away fren D's opportunity and some more giv up on the gal B and go for C.... so sort of trying to damage the very good relationship btwn u and D....

however from E's perspective/view pt... E's view is correct.... hw can u(fren A) took away other ppl opportunity and some more never cherish and break up....and worst seen with fren C.....

but from ur viewpoint.... there's this quarrel and no choice a breakup is imminent(unavoidable), and although the breakup is due to fren C and misunderstanding, but u really hav no intention to woo C after the break up.... juz suay ur path and C's path keep crossing....

so u sort of feel tat u dui bu qi fren D, but ur tat good fren, fren E keep psycho fren D that u r a condemn person.... and u r oso very close to fren E oso.... so since this fren E is oso a very close fren of urs...is his/her comment (all those condemn stuff) is really true and does it really reflects abt u???

so wat shd A do??
Option1. bo chap fren C onli? (to prevent further condemn? but u and C still nid to work together often...).... Option2. dun bo chap the innocent fren C and fuck care ur good fren E's "comments".... Option3. isolate urself from C and de-fren E as well.... Option4... go and kill urself(presumely u are really the bastard...).....

haiz.....

A lot of thing to say... but not enuf time...

hmm.... aiya forgot wat to say le... too many things.... dunno hw to start sia.... basically, for the past few days, mi hav been feeling super upset...dunno to be angry or sad wif this best fren/soul mate of mine.... haiz... almost drop him/her into the condemn list... unbelievable rite? from a best of best fren or soulmate can straight away appear in the condemn list.... but cant blame mi oso... tat fren sort of "betrayed" mi.... haiz some more is a veri close fren... so dunno to be angry or sad... well think as for nw... mi still carries a bit of doubt for this fren.... haiz... of cos nidless to say, he/she is juz a normal fren nw... hope it wont degrade further into the condemn list... cos once in the condemn list means forever condemn.... no chance to revive.... haiz.. mi oso try not to condemn ppl... but dunno y nwadays mi becoming less optimistic le.... probably cos of academic stress or think is the result of the action of this fren tat change mi to be a less friendly person and more cruel person ba....

well enuf of this fren... go to the happy things first.. first muz thx all my frens for the birthdae wishes, presents, treats... although mi seem to hav a net gain of 100 plus bucks..(unexpected), dun wry mi will treat u all back for the second feast.... and ya cheers to my da ge...haha the da sao not bad.... think can get along quite smoothly....

hmm.... think mi oso running out of time... oya btw.... think u all will be seeing mi less often on msn... cos mi rather busy.... but mi still can see u all..lol... cos mi is mostly on appear off9 mode...:) think will onli be free and relax once the 1 week break comes... oya the jolin album coming out izzit? i dunno abt it... mi sort of lose tracks of the music industry... but i noe the jay chou album coming out... or has it already came out? alamak think nid to catch up on the music stuff... ok cya all:)