well....a few days mi hav a tok cork session wif my buddy, and nidless to say, its abt guys tok.... so in the middle of all the crap... mi suddenly realised smth.... tat actually gals are very hard to please....errm not as its difficult, but there's juz no logical explanation to everything.... well let mi illustrate this.....
suppose ur gf starts to cough...and u hav juz noticed tat her cough is a bit serious.... shd u (a)go to her and ask her if she's ok and offer to accompany her to see the doc? or (b)relax one corner and wait till her cough gets more serious then u bring her to see the doc???...... well at first look, obviously option (a) is the better choice.... well guess wats the respond tat the gal might giv when u choose option(a)....
guy: dear, u ok? u look a bit pale and has been coughing rather badly.... u wanna see a doc?
gal: "grrr".... y u always so jin zhang over small things....relax its juz a small cough...y worry over a small matter? and u always disturb and force mi to do wat i dun lov to do...and bla bla....( so she will begin to bring up all the past unhappy events and will start to complain.......)....
in the end she insisted tat she will self-medicate and dun nid to see the doc....but u wry abt her health and futhermore wats more impt than health??? then u will feel very heartache to see her coughing but even if u nicely ask her to see the doc...she will still insist on not seeing...and may even push the blame to u, saying u are reacting too much over a small thing..... well see the poor guy gets blamed for being concern.......
well so wat happen if u could rewind time and choose option(b)....nahz this cant happen...hw can rewind time de.... but suppose u could...the end-result is not veri good either...
guy: "saw" the gf coughing and knowing the option(a) result.... he decide to leave her alone first..
gal: "sob" my bf never care for mi de... mi is coughing and he doesnt even care to ask whether i'm ok anot... haiz... think this kind of bf no use de....(and so the poor guy this time round gets a cold shoulder from his gf.....)
well...guess there's simply no ans to this type of scenario.... guess u hav to "di gum" hope u kena the correct scenario and the correct respond....lol
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